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Finding Steady Ground: Managing Mental Health in Times of Chaos

  • Writer: Heather Jones
    Heather Jones
  • Sep 9, 2025
  • 2 min read

Let’s face it—life can get messy. Whether it’s global upheaval, personal loss, burnout at work, or a chaotic household, the world doesn’t always give us the luxury of calm. And when everything feels out of control, our mental health is often the first thing to slip.


But here’s the truth: even in chaos, it’s possible to care for your mind. You don’t need a perfect morning routine or hours of meditation. You just need small, steady practices that keep you anchored.


Here are some realistic strategies to help you protect your mental health when life gets stormy:


1. Simplify Where You Can


In chaos, your brain is already overstimulated. Try to reduce decision fatigue by simplifying your daily choices:

  • Eat familiar meals.

  • Wear comfy clothes you don’t have to think about.

  • Use to-do lists to unload your brain.


Mental energy is precious—save it for what matters.


2. Create a “Calm Corner”


This doesn’t have to be an actual corner (though it can be). It’s just a go-to space, activity, or practice that helps you return to center. Think:

  • Sitting outside for 5 minutes.

  • Listening to one grounding song.

  • Holding a warm cup of tea and doing nothing else.


It’s about giving your nervous system a break, not fixing everything.


3. Limit Doomscrolling


When the outside world is chaotic, our impulse is to stay constantly updated. But information overload can heighten anxiety. Try this:

  • Set time limits for news or social media.

  • Choose one trusted source to check once or twice a day.

  • Balance every input with something soothing: music, nature, art, or silence.


You’re not ignoring the world—you’re protecting your mental bandwidth.


4. Check in with Your Body


Chaos often lives in the body before the mind catches up. Are your shoulders tense? Is your jaw clenched? Are you breathing shallowly?

Pause. Do a 30-second body scan. Stretch. Breathe deep into your belly. Drink some water. Movement—even gentle—is medicine.


5. Talk It Out (Or Write It Out)


You don’t have to carry everything alone. Talking to a friend, therapist, or support group can help you feel less isolated. If words are hard, try journaling. Just one sentence a day like: “Today felt heavy, but I made it.”


That’s enough.


6. Let Go of “Shoulds”


Maybe you should be handling things better. Maybe others seem to be coping more gracefully. Let all of that go. You’re doing your best in circumstances you didn’t choose.


Give yourself permission to just survive some days. Productivity doesn’t equal worthiness.


7. Lean Into Tiny Joys


Chaos and joy can exist at the same time. A small laugh. A good snack. A text from someone who gets it. Noticing these moments doesn’t mean you’re ignoring the hard stuff—it means you’re making room for life’s full picture.


Final Thoughts


Mental health during chaos isn’t about staying perfectly calm or unaffected. It’s about staying connected—to yourself, to what matters, to small moments of steadiness.


You don’t have to be unshakable. You just have to stay rooted enough to keep showing up.


Be gentle with yourself. Chaos doesn’t last forever—but your mind deserves care through all of it.

 
 
 

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